09 Sep 16
It's been almost two years since I've graduated and left school for good. My five and a half years of stay in uni were some of the best years of my life. It was ten times better than grade school and high school combined. Those years were the final oven that pressured and cooked me to who I am now.
In those years, I have learned so much that I would not trade for anything in the world. It was in college that I was immersed in different cultures, with different kinds of people, in various scenarios. It was in college that I learned how to make friends and keep them. It was in college that I learned how to maintain a relationship. It was in college that I learned that happiness can be a choice you can consciously make. It was in college that I got to know more about God. It was in college that I truly found and got to know myself.
The Renee last two years ago was very eager to finish schooling. I remember I was so excited to cast my foot on the "real" world. After I passed our licensure exam, I immediately found a job. I grabbed the opportunity and set off on this new journey. I was nervous, I felt unprepared, but I was also excited and thirsty to learn more of what I'm getting into.
Life after college was not what I was hoping for. It was hard and I didn't know anything at all that was relevant. I thought finishing college was hard, but saying goodbye and ending it was harder. Life after college is when you put into use all of the choices and hard work you've made. Life after college is another struggle, another challenge to be faced.
So far, I've been living the adult life for 10 months. The real world has taught me things I hoped I knew when I was still in college. I decided to make a post about this so I can share my experiences with those who are graduating soon so that at least somehow, you will be prepared for the life that is waiting for you after school.
We were always taught that working hard is what gets us the fruits. I've learned that no matter how hard you work when you have a fixed income, you wouldn't be credited for it. I have learned that the hard way and when I read an article about being work savvy, I just did it. And now, I'm not as tired as I was before whenever I finish my day job. Work smart guys, you're young! Don't be such a workaholic, it's bad for your health. ;)
This item might be a bit laughable but it is one of the most important things you must have when you are adult-ing. At least two valid IDs are always required when you apply for bank accounts, credit cards, sometimes for work, for getting a passport, visas and so much more. So yes, get yourself valid IDs, and at least two of them.
So those are the things the real world has taught me so far. I am still in the learning process and I know I have a long way to go. I hope these will be helpful to you someday, sometime. Don't rush your student life. Enjoy it, savor every moment of it, because once you have finished, you will be forced to let it all go and venture on to the next level of your life. And trust me when I say that adulting is hard. Yes, it has its perks, but it can be stressful when you are unprepared for it. My advice? Learn as many practical things as you can. The things you learned at school aren't all the things you need to prepare yourself. Ask your parents for advice, they know a lot of things that you don't. That's what I always do today. :)
In those years, I have learned so much that I would not trade for anything in the world. It was in college that I was immersed in different cultures, with different kinds of people, in various scenarios. It was in college that I learned how to make friends and keep them. It was in college that I learned how to maintain a relationship. It was in college that I learned that happiness can be a choice you can consciously make. It was in college that I got to know more about God. It was in college that I truly found and got to know myself.
The Renee last two years ago was very eager to finish schooling. I remember I was so excited to cast my foot on the "real" world. After I passed our licensure exam, I immediately found a job. I grabbed the opportunity and set off on this new journey. I was nervous, I felt unprepared, but I was also excited and thirsty to learn more of what I'm getting into.
Life after college was not what I was hoping for. It was hard and I didn't know anything at all that was relevant. I thought finishing college was hard, but saying goodbye and ending it was harder. Life after college is when you put into use all of the choices and hard work you've made. Life after college is another struggle, another challenge to be faced.
So far, I've been living the adult life for 10 months. The real world has taught me things I hoped I knew when I was still in college. I decided to make a post about this so I can share my experiences with those who are graduating soon so that at least somehow, you will be prepared for the life that is waiting for you after school.
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